Associations Now has an article that is an adaptation of a chapter from the Thompson, Emery and Porras book, Success Built to Last (Porras wrote Built to Last with Jim Collins). The article says, in short, that those who have been incredibly successful have persistently stuck with their core values, or what “matters.”
I think this may be one of those “curse of knowledge” moments, because when you sum it up like that, it doesn’t feel that powerful. Successful people do what matters to them? Why is that such a big deal?
The trick, I think, is being clear about what matters. It is very easy to pick a number of things and put them in your “matters” box. Our culture promotes a number of values that everyone can be proud to call their own. And they may be important to you, but that’s not enough. There has to be a piece of the “what matters” that is uniquely yours. Listen to the last few sentences of the article:
The lesson here is that you can’t—or shouldn’t hijack someone else’s value system. To do so would be a violation of integrity to what matters in your life. There is no more personal decision than to discover what meaning means to you. Only you can make that choice.
This is why you can’t build a life around best practices. And you can’t do it with organizations either. I really love the “only you can make that choice” line. Organizations have to make a choice as to what they are really all about and what will really drive their success. Read all you want about best practices or what makes organizations successful, but the point of that exploration should be divergent (expansive learning to generate new insights), not convergent (narrowing options towards a conclusion about what to do). The convergent part must come from within. That’s where you make your choice.
